Schools out! For some, permanently. Yup, time to enter the workforce and become a productive member of society. Earn a living. Move out of mom and dad’s house. It’s a scary time for some of our kids. But remember back to when you started on your own. We were used to the rules of the education world, but now we have to learn a new set of rules for the workplace.

Every workplace in every field of work has its own set of rules. Some workplaces require a tie and jacket. Some only need their employees to wear something more than a birthday suit. But some basic rules span ALL work environments. Most of these can be found in the rules of etiquette and are relatively simple.

It’s wise not to talk about politics, religion, or sex at work. These three can trigger arguments and bad feelings with coworkers. DO NOT bring your personal life to work with you. Keep relationship troubles to yourself. Don’t talk about the parties you went to last weekend, especially if they led to you getting drunk or doing crazy, stupid stuff.

Be sure you’re speaking respectfully to EVERYONE; your boss, your peers, those who report to you, and your customers. I was trying to make a medical appointment just today, and the young lady at the doctor’s office was condescending and short with me. She told me I said things I certainly didn’t say (specifically the name of my insurance which I read RIGHT OFF THE CARD). If you don’t recall, I’m a Registered Nurse and know how this stuff is supposed to work. I calmly told her, “I am feeling that you are speaking to me very condescendingly and without respect,” and that I would call back later. I called another doctor’s office instead. She immediately LOST a customer for that doctor’s practice because I wasn’t treated with dignity and respect.

The main point is to learn the rules of your workplace (and, of course, your job), follow them, and treat everyone with dignity and respect. And keep your personal life personal. If you do this, your career will be much easier, and success will follow you.